I haven’t talked about the murders here on IronFiremen.com yet. Like many, I’m still trying to understand this horrific event. I’m not even sure what to say yet … what can you say?
I’ve watched a lot of the news and read several of the articles / stories. I was glad to see that tonight, at least some of the media got it right. Tonight, they quit interviewing kids and parents. They quit with the unbearable questions.
For what I’m sure will be a short lived period, they turned the cameras off the survivors / mourners and listed the names of those murdered.
To me, this should have been done much earlier (with respect to the families etc). I say that because the name of their murderer was up quickly. Every station had it up in bold. His name and picture.
I could care less about him. He’s not important to me. We will never know his motive or reasoning and there’s no reason to speculate. We can’t ask or beat it out of him. He took the cowards way out and died a much too easy death.
Here’s the thing … he will be remembered. His name and face was imprinted into our heads before we knew the victims. It’s still happening. They (mainstream media) are already posting his picture and making comparisons with other recent mass murderers ( Virginia Tech, Denver etc). His name could (and likely will) become more recognizable than his victims and that’s sad.
THAT’S WHO WE SHOULD BE REMEMBERING … THE VICTIMS.
Here are the names (and ages) of those we should remember. Don’t forget or lose them in the ensuing media circus ….
Mary Sherlach, 56; Dawn Lafferty Hochsprung, 47; Lauren Rousseau, 30; Victoria Soto, 27; Olivia Engel, 6; Emilie Parker, 6; Rachel Davino, 29; Anne Marie Murphy, 25; Charlotte Bacon, 6; Daniel Barden, 7; Josephine Gay, 7; Ana Marquez-Greene, 6; Dylan Hockley, 6; Madeleine Hsu, 6; Catherine Hubbard, 6; Chase Kowalski, 7; Jesse Lewis, 6; James Mattioli, 6; Grace McDonnell, 7; Anne Marie Murphy, 52; Jack Pinto, 6; Noah Pozner, 6; Caroline Previdi, 6; Jessica Rekos, 6; Avielle Richman, 6; Benjamin Wheeler, 6; Allison Wyatt, 6.
The Police, Fire and Rescue members who responded to the scene.
I don’t even want to imagine what they encountered. I can’t. Dave Statter had Police and Fire radio traffic up early. I’ll add the link …
I’m certain their lives will be changed forever. I’ve thought of their pain everyday since the shootings.
What I haven’t seen or heard about yet is how those Brothers and Sisters are holding up.
I’m sure there are Counseling Units / Services on site and that they will remain for some time. I’m not sure it will be enough.
Again I’ll say that this was a life altering event / incident.
From what I can tell, Newtown is a relatively “small” town / community. It is the 5th largest “Town” in Connecticut at only 60.38 sq miles.
Sandy Hook is a Borough within Newtown. It was the Sandy Hook Fire Station that was shown so much in the media coverage.
Sandy Hook has 2 Stations, 8 pieces and over 60 members. I haven’t heard how many member’s children attended the elementary school if any.
Please keep these Brothers and Sisters in your thoughts and prayers as well. I would imagine that the population of Sandy Hook and Newtown has tripled with the sudden influx of media etc. That means that the possibility exists for the call volume of Fire, Rescue and Police to increase as well. They could be busier now than ever before and at a time when they can least afford it.
While I’m on the subject, let me say that this season (Thanksgiving / Christmas) is typically the worst for us on the job.
It’s supposed to be a time for family. A time of peace and joy but that’s not always the reality we see out here in the streets.
We never get called out because something “good” is happening but, at this time of year; it’s maybe a little more difficult see and deal with.
FireChief.com is reporting that Firefighting is the second most stressful job in the Nation and I think this is our most stressful season.
As Company Officers, it’s our responsibility to take care of our members and that includes AFTER the call. Make sure you understand and recognize the signs of stress. Also make sure your members know that they have a place to “go” … someone to confide in and “talk” to.
Here are some links that may be helpful ….
- samatters.com – Understanding Stress – Part 2
- Firefighter Behavioral Health Alliance
- Fire Critic; Suicide: Saving our Brothers after the call
- IronFiremen; Some sad news, a little more emotion and a day at Lucky #13 ….
Stay SAFE and in House!